Would you ever date some one in the military?

I have dated a man in the military. He was in Iraq when we first started talking and he made me believe that I was "the one" and he wanted to marry me, then his leave finally arrived and he came home for two weeks, and then returned to Iraq.... He has barely spoken 5 words to me after he left to go back to Iraq and that was 2 1/2 years ago. Do I think badly of dating military because that? No. I would hope that he was just one bad seed, who couldn't see what he had. I actually like dating military men. Some women can handle it, and some can't.

i decided that I wont date a civilian ..........I find civy`s kind of lazy but i do love hanging out with them.........

I'm a civilian, and I would definitely date a military man. It takes a lot of conviction and courage to do what they do for a living... thats the same thing it takes to be my sort of guy.

I never wanted to or thought I would, but it's looking like I'd have to...I'm enlisting in the AF next week and don't know too many guys content to let their wives be the breadwinners while they pick up and move with them every three years. I definitely need to be with someone in the same boat, to make the constant relocation easier.

I have only once , Its hard and it takes alot patience and understanding. You go in knowing you'll play second fiddle to the Army but its something I never minded. I was proud of the man I was with. So yes I would date Army any time.

I am married to an ex solider and we dated they whole time we both were deployed was hard then and now that have a litle girl its hardier to be away from home, but is the best thing I ever did.

they are the only guys I would date. They understand my lifestyle, but also people that are in the military have a higher since of duty and selflessness most of the time and those are things I look for in the opposite sex

I've dated a guy that was an Air Force Cadet before I met my fiance.
I never thought I really would end up with a military man. But apparently everyone I know swore up and down my entire life I'd end up with a military man- guess they were right haha.

not sure. never got the oppportunity. im sure that it could be possible, but i would not date a lady soley on the grounds that she is in the military. I would have to see what her plans were and her goals before i made any prejudgements.

I did. He was in 2 yrs when we met, and now we've been married 10 years (11 in Aug) and have 3 kids. I'll be 30 soon, and he is 32.
He did the whole PCS move to SKorea then Iraq and our relationship survived because we were both strong enough to keep it going.
We've been separated from the military since 2004, but I am getting ready to enlist in the Army soon. Now our roles are going
to be reversed and he is going to play Mr Mom to our kids and work on his GI Bill while I go play.

Yes! I definitely would.

No. Not unless...err...TDY if that counts... o.O

yup , im married to one:)